I don’t know what you’re problem is but DHT only uses UDP. Now, change your half-open TCP connections back to 8. You’re not leaving any room for other programs includeing your web browser.
It sounds like you’re going to have to just disable DHT. This is a problem with your router trying to keep these connections logged. Can you changed the router’s settings for that?
No, Windows does not limit UDP in anyway. Nor do they limit max connections. Do your friends have the same router as you? Check to see if the router has any firmware updates.